\u2026 i hate the use of the word muse and I hate that men discuss women body. I wasn\u2019t talking about women who decide to shave here but just talking about the pervs who post shaved vulvas full frame in here talking about celebrating \u00ab women\u2019s beauty \u00bb. I am all about supporting women in whatever they do<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
I immediately felt misunderstood and seen for someone I’m not: it hurt so much that I blocked Valentine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Then the night brought a new vision and I decided to write back Valentine, trying to explain my point of view, so I unblocked her and, realized that I need more than 300 characters to answer, so I let her know that I was going to prepare this post and add a link to it on this blog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nI\u2019m sorry I made you feel the emotion of hate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We are all right and wrong at the same time, it only depends on the point of view we look at things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Life is made by duality, as a matter of fact it cannot exist without a woman and a man; lately I understood that each of us lives both a masculine and a feminine side. Sometime this gets us confused so much that we end up in not knowing anymore who\/what we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
From my point of view we are all connected and are part of a huge unique identity that goes under different names, pending the religion we decide to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m so sorry if I hurt you by referring to the women we try to create art together as \u201cmuses\u201d, but there are some reasons for that.
All and each woman I\u2019ve worked with, showed me their own side of the human being. A side that sometimes made me feel really good and sometimes really bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Each of them made me learn something about humans and myself, making me a better human being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Each of them inspired me by their own way of being, and for this reason they became my muses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course there was no connection with everyone, especially at the beginning of my path in photography. However many of them took a special place in my heart and will be with me for the rest of this life \u2013 and hopefully future lives as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I understand your point about \u00ab women\u2019s beauty \u00bb but I must say that I also try to understand the \u201cother side\u201d, even though sometimes is so difficult\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a matter of fact I see a lot of technically good images with \u201cperfect\u201d bodies in beautiful locations, images that most of the time tells me nothing about the model and even less about the photographer\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With my comment I was trying to raise the point that nowadays I see people accept and love themselves less and less, bending to rules that are made by a system that try to separate people so that it can better manipulate them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Something that I try to underline with my work in the hope I can inspire other humans in connecting with themselves first and all the other species on this planet as a consequence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, again, sorry if I hurt you and that you so much for giving me the opportunity to explain a bit about my vision.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
While I was about to publish this post I realized Valentine blocked me: pity it could be a good starting point to grow a little bit by learning from each other point of view… she will hopefully change her mind if someone shares with her a link to this post.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is one of the reasons I don’t like socials, the interaction is way too limited and it is so easy to misunderstand each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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